Couples & Marriage Counselling

In couples / marriage counselling I focus on:

  • Pre-marital counselling
  • The unfolding of trust and betrayal
  • Communication & Couple Interaction
  • Developing a sense of self for better sexual intimacy
  • Self-confrontation
  • Couples / marriage counselling with one
  • Separation / Divorce
  • Parenting after divorce

Sometimes couples get stuck in circular repetitive arguments that strain all communications. Such an environment creates constant frustration even though there might still be love and care for the other person.

Some of my work with couples includes:

  • Helping the couple create genuine ways to communicate and connect
  • Identifying and replacing the elements that lead to circular repetitive arguments
  • Building mature trust in a relationship – Recovering from deep hurt and betrayal
  • Creating healthy individuality while still maintaining intimacy
  • Learning how to take care of yourself so that you can show up in your relationship from a place of wholeness rather than need
  • Understanding and working with your partner’s love language
  • Differentiating solvable from “unsolvable” problems
  • Couples / marriage counselling with one – sometimes the other party might not be ready for counselling, in such a case I can work with you individually to address personal and couples concerns.
  • Fostering self-confrontation – When couples come to see me they are often focused on changing the other person. That rarely brings any positive changes. My approach focuses also on self-confrontation. Many of my clients have found this approach productive as it allows them to work on an aspect of their relationship they feel they can change rather than focus on changing someone else.

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